The ages of 9–12, or the “tween years,” are a transitional phase marked by emotional swings, identity exploration, and the onset of puberty. It’s a time when children start seeking independence, peer approval, and deeper self-understanding.
The preteen years (ages 9–12) mark a transitional phase full of emotional changes, identity exploration, and social pressures. Tweens may experience mood swings, seek independence, and struggle with self-esteem. This period requires a shift in parenting—more communication, trust-building, and guidance rather than control.
Conclusion
Foster open conversations about emotions and peer pressure. Guide rather than dictate decisions. Encourage participation in structured activities or mentorship programs. Open communication, patience, and providing age-appropriate responsibilities help tweens feel secure while developing autonomy.